The most uncanny aspect of life is that one can never be sure what follows next. It’s a full circle one goes through. Ups and downs, joys and sorrows , success and failure , life and death – All of it makes us stand and wonder that here each one is to their own. Every phase, every experience, every moment adds a new perspective to the way we view ourselves. We are all just an insignificant spec when we compare ourselves to the gigantic microcosm. Therefore one should not be petty or arrogant about their essential being. Life is to be embraced with open arms. Happiness is meant to be shared. Misery is to be made a teaching moment for endurance.
Love the people around. Don’t discriminate. Keep your humanity alive because life is fleeting at a pace so fast that things can change at the blink of an eye. Remain grateful because you owe a lot of people a lot when it comes to shaping you as an individual that you are. You just never know what you encounter next. So be thankful to the people who made you who you are. People will not stay around forever because eventually all of us will leave this place. But until then, live in harmony and radiate out positivity as much as you can. Spread your vibrance out there in the universe.
P.S I am dedicating this post to all those people whose loved ones mean the world to them. Nothing lasts forever, they say. Only memories remain. So create moments you can cherish for a lifetime 🙂
Notice the above picture ? What does it say – ‘Laugh out Loud.’ A lot of you tend to use the ‘LOL’ acronym way too commonly, and that’s good. It indeed is but do you actually implement it in your actual lives? NO.
Well here’s the thing people and get this straight – You have got to let go of your inhibitions and embrace laughter as much as you can. Even in the year 2014, with all the access to technology and so many other awesome things, if you can’t even laugh. what the hell are you living for. Laugh like a child because that is the purest , the most genuine form of laughter. If you feel that your life is stressful and you don’t have enough reasons to be happy , and laugh out loud – CREATE those reasons. Most importantly, distance yourselves from negativity and negative people. They will suck the life force out of you.Count all those people in, who help you release Endorphins. Endorphins are the body’s natural opiates, designed to relieve stress and enhance pleasure. Endorphin is known as the ‘happiness hormone’. It does away with all your stress and makes you happy at heart.
The most insignificant things that you tend to take for granted will assist you in releasing Endorphins – the smell of chocolate, a bite of your favourite dessert, a hot shower after a hectic day, a good workout session that makes you feel good about yourself, a healthy interaction with someone positive, watching a sitcom, reading a really inriguing book, a really nice ‘make- out’ session , if you have that option of course 😉 and lots of laughter. Laughter is healthy, laughter fills you with positivity and it is definitely contagious. That is why you have got to surround yourselves with people who will literally make you release Endorphins. Laughter cleanses you inside out. It helps build your immunity. It helps lower your blood pressure. It even helps toning your abs. More than anything else, it contributes to your overall well being. Therefore, don’t waste time in waiting to be happy, waiting to laugh, waiting for having your perfect moments. Now is perfect , it’s as good as any time. Just laugh because a day without LOL moments is a day wasted and a life without LOL moments is an entire life time wasted.
Energy is the single most important force that constitutes the universe and therefore, also the human existence. For me, energy symbolizes efficiency, ardor, vitality, potency and more than anything else – spirit. The gigantic universe that we all are a part of, consists of light and dark matter. In the same way our lives comprise of people – both positive and negative. Either way, they have an impact on us. Interesting thing is that people can lie, manipulate their ugly intentions with welcoming actions, can indulge in sugar coated sweet talk even though malice is what is inside them and yet their vibes don’t lie. Just don’t. People may deceive us but their vibes don’t.
I recently came across this really interesting term – ‘Energy Vampires.’ What it signifies is people who can be synonymous to vampires in draining you, except that they don’t drain out blood, they drain out your ‘chi’ or positive life energy. They suck the life force out of you. They are envious of the little things that might not even hold any importance to you. The way you talk, the way you carry yourself, the way you think – they get envious of everything. In short, your overall persona is what makes them cringe.
Now the problem is that somehow they don’t uplift themselves from their own ‘set ways’ but try their level best to bring you down. Their problem is not their own despair but your happiness. Such people, in my view are indulging in the worst form of human existence. They somehow are unable to channelize the envy they posses as a factor in motivating them to do better (since you cannot pull people backwards, you can push yourself forward). Instead they will litter it around to do harm to you. Worst part is that it isn’t as if they harm you physically (although that can happen too).
The mere thought of you doing well elicits from them such a strong force of negativity, that you actually feel it. It harms you in every way and even though a lot of people may theorize that don’t let such people get to you, it takes time to build that endurance. Mean while these ‘Energy Vampires’ wreak havoc in your lives – emotionally, mentally, psychologically and even anatomically. These EV’S as I call them, cringe, take offence and are full of pitch black envy at things that you might want to laugh at. I mean right from posting a lovely picture on Facebook to, let’s say getting a lot of hits at your newly created website. From being appreciated by a lot of people to actually being successful. From coming from affluent background to being a free spirit, these people despise it all.
They do it not because they hate these things but because they can’t have them (deep inside they keep wishing they’d have it all). It’s a whole different story though, that no one’s stopping them. They’re creating that hindrance themselves since they waste their energy in thinking maliciously about you. Instead they should make more way for themselves. But since that usually doesn’t happen, it is extremely important for us to protect ourselves from the negativity around.
Neutralize the negativity around. Restore the balance within. Try maintaining your aura around you. The more you radiate positivity, the more you make your aura stronger. Make your aura your Armor. Subdue their negativity with your ‘chi.’ Be careful whom you give your attention to. The more you give attention to a thing, the more it grows, so make sure only the things worth it get your attention. Let the positive things, the positive situations and the positive people get your attention. Do not ever get engulfed by the negativity around since it is contagious. Just as a black hole sucks in all the light around, negativity sucks in all the positivity around. Negativity leaves you empty. Try filling that void with positivity.
Surround yourself with positive people. Surround yourself with nature because to be in sync with nature does wonders to you. Extremely few people know how to live in a fascinating way. Others spend their days breathing – only breathing, not living. Stop over thinking about all the things you cannot control. How people react, why people get envious, how people cringe, why people derive a sadistic pleasure each time you’re committing mistakes, feeling awful and are on an all time low, will never be in your hands . What will be in your hands is the power of selectivity, of inaccessibility, and of goodness. ‘Selectivity’ for selecting very carefully the thoughts you pick up. ‘Inaccessibility’ for distancing yourself from all the people who will never think good of you, and will keep cringing for who you are. ‘Goodness’ since you are not a bad person. So, you don’t have to live by the philosophy of ‘”an eye for an eye” because if you do that, there will be no difference between them and you.
Be the way you are – Virtuous, wonderful and seasoned. Transform yourself from within, the outside environment will change automatically. Work hard on yourself in getting rid of all the clutter inside your brain. The clutter comprises the negative thoughts that the EV’s have implanted. Get rid of all of it and make space for the positivity of the universe to rush right in. Trust me, it will and when that happens you will live in awe for the rest of your life discovering the magic that life has to offer. The world isn’t that bad a place. It has a lot of beauty, a lot of magic but only for people who are ready to let go of the negativity and embrace the beauty and the magic. Discover yourself each day. Feel alive. Worth it.